@ Narutowolf77- I can't quote your text because are so many points I'd like to discuss with you, so I'll just dive in.
I didn't mean to come off so harsh on my statement of Kaname, I guess I was taking out my anger on prior discussions I had with other individuals on this matter on different forums, here.
All in all, I believe there are very negative aspects about how the characterization of Kaname and Zero were handled. Zero being nihilistic and Kaname being manipulative and ominous.
But first to start with the positive aspects.
I have never disliked Kaname, however that does not go to say I favor him either. At the start of Kaname's life (before he slept for an eternity) he was the kind vampire that did not want the life of humans but wanted to better the life of humans. He constantly gave them his blood to cure them and aid them, in turn for a little blood he would consume from them as nourishment to survive. Once the humans found out, they overlooked the good they received and banished him for the "monster" he was. He felt abandoned and lost all sense of purpose in life, casting himself off, that was until he met "her" the ancestress. She began to return purpose to his life and rid the erratic conditions of vampires at the time. She even taught him love.
I admired Kaname for that. He completes his purpose of returning order to the world.
However, when he reawakens, I think partially due to his long life, to meet and satisfy the burdens the ancestress placed on him, he begins to manipulate his way to reaching end's meet:
- So far, he has killed Aidou's father for reasons still unknown.
- He causes others, like pacificist Chairman Cross to deliver an almost fatal blow to little bat boy pureblood, even though he knows how much Cross dislikes killing anything.
- He accelerates his "grand plans" when finding out about the vampire hunter twins, releasing shizuka to hunt and murder his family. I feel this was unjustified, even if it was necessary in creating the perfect weapon.
- Kaname's wishes of the new world he envisions is being imposed on both races.
- The constant manipulating of zero and yuuki's feelings (this is arguable, since we as readers cannot distinguish whether yuuki truly loves kaname despite who he is, she is still shaky of the idea, or she feels it his her duty to uphold the person who protected her). As well as Ruka.
- He FEASTS on Yuuki when she runs off and almost drinks on Zero's blood to punish her (Here)
What I see now, is depending on the way Hino-sensei writes this manga, either Kaname will continue to cause more destruction hurting others around him to uphold his goal (again look at the cost for the "great good" he may be seeking) and ultimately die with much damage inflicted. Or Kaname will die a "hero" death, saving the race from Sara's plans and ridding the world of purebloods and domination over each other, in end making the world a better place.
True this motive is arguably respectable, but still some innocence is definitely shed, and to me I feel that Kaname has already lived such a long life, experienced some happiness, and to me I feel that gives Zero more reason to find happiness in Yuuki.
It is true that Kaname does treat her with kindness, but that is because I believe she fills his life with hope again and he no longer despairs when she is around. So he too would like to see her smile.
As for Zero, I have to agree many of his actions have been quite demeaning to Yuuki. Pre-vampire Yuuki, Zero's personality has always been cold, though I never believed him to be mean to Yuuki. He has always treated her in the best way he knew.
Post-awakening, the true reason he casts her off as an enemy is: 1) He struggles with how he feels towards purebloods for reasons obviously known and with the recent death of his brother he lashes out towards Yuuki 2) He later admits that if Yuuki was happy with Kaname, he'd happily let her go, and I think the only way he could detach such a compassionate individual like Yuuki was to make her believe that he hated her to the very bones.
I'm looking forward to discussing VK more with you in the future :)