@whiteapparition
I'm Asian of Chinese ancestry, so I know.
Truth to be told, if I were in SY's position, I would probably agree without batting my eyes, because contrary to what I read, I'm a very practical person and I don't really believe in the so called "true love".
It's just that, like you, I feel sad about original SY. While her families were waving the "we're doing this for your good" banner, no one even noticed that "Su Yan" had changed her essence, it's like she was forgotten, just like that. In the end, were they really care about Su Yan if they couldn't even recognised her?
In another transmigration story, MC was at least inherited the orig host's memory or have read the story line, while in here, MC had no clue at all, yet they still didn't notice the different and just brush it all as being "sensible".