Candor said:
These were plot-holes that were explained in an official character book (an old one), they're written in wikia.bleach.com, here you go (the first paragraph was in the manga, the rest wasn't): While Rukia Kuchiki initially describes Soul Society as something of a paradise, where nine out of ten times it is better than the living world and hunger is never a problem.[2]
Soul Society is far from sublime. In fact, aside from the slowed aging and aforementioned lack of hunger, life there is much like that in the living world.
Soul Society consists of the Rukongai (流魂街, wandering soul city; Viz: Rukon District), where souls live when they arrive in Soul Society, and Seireitei (瀞霊廷, court of pure souls), which is at the center of Soul Society. The mode of life here closely resembles that of feudal Japan.
The Human World and Soul Society are parallel to each other and are two sides of the same coin. Families separated by death are rarely reunited in the Soul Society unless they arrive in Soul Society together. People live nestled together like a family of strangers. One never gets hungry (if she or he doesn't have spiritual powers) and aging is slowed to a great extent, with lifespans of 2000 or more years not being unheard of, though such ages are limited to Shinigami or other Soul Society dwellers with high spiritual power. Children can be born as they are in the Human World. People can also be killed as regular Humans are, though they are capable of surviving wounds that would normally be considered fatal. A soul that dies in Soul Society is reincarnated on Earth as a new Human with no past memories.[3]
Some stuff have been explained also in this arc (the balance of the 2 worlds, the balancers, and the coin part that was mentioned in the character book), so we will probably get more explanations about Bleach's world in addition to flash-backs for lots of characters in this arc.
About Urahara, he wasn't exiled, he ran away from Soul Society with Yoruichi, Tessai and the Vizard, you can re-check the Pendulum arc.
Well, this explain a lot. Thanks. eventhough theres many more bugging my mind.