I Lived with the Villain in the ’70s

In essence, this story is an ordinary read, nothing extraordinary but rather enjoyable. The portrayal of men as slightly submissive might be unconventional, but it adds an intriguing twist. It's true that submissive husbands and weaklings do exist, though it's a unique aspect (shrug). The ending seemed a bit hurried, I wished for a deeper exploration of their lives after settling into their new roles. Considering the main character comes from the future, it would've been fascinating to see how she adapted to the times and shared her futuristic knowledge with her partner.

I would have given it a full 5-star rating, but I deducted one star because I don't think the content accurately represents schizophrenia. It might be a translation issue, but the symptoms described don't align with what I've learned from the NHS website and personal experience. Reflecting further, I feel the information presented spreads misinformation, which affects my rating. Unfortunately, now editing the review won't change the overall score. Story-wise, it's commendable; an easy read with a relatable main character. I appreciate her open portrayal of her relationship with her husband, including the intimate aspects. The character dynamics are strong, and there's just the right amount of drama to maintain engagement.

If you're curious about spoilers up until Chapter 49, feel free to check out my thoughts on the novel. However, this review is based on a limited reading experience, as I couldn't continue due to the unsatisfactory plot and characters.

At first, I had a positive impression of the main character (MC), but as the story progressed, her interactions with the three personalities of the male lead (ML) seemed imbalanced. It appeared she favored the villainous ML over the child ML and the depressed one, using her "golden finger" unfairly. Her毫不犹豫选择与恶人格ML共度时光尤为刺痛。

When the ML's personalities shared their memories, they were likely aware of her preference, adding to the injustice. The "golden finger" felt underutilized and unimportant in the narrative, despite being a significant aspect. Despite occasional claims of her intelligence, the MC developed into a selfish, useless, annoying, biased, and not-so-smart character.

The minor villains and cannon fodder characters also grated on my nerves with their low智商, seemingly there solely for plot convenience. The ML's parents, who sold him and caused trauma, were unexpectedly forgiven simply for treating the MC well – it was hard to swallow.

As for the ML's parents, while they might have redeeming qualities, their actions were unforgivable, and their eventual redemption felt hollow. Overall, I was disappointed with the direction the story took and ultimately decided to stop reading.

I rather enjoyed it. Despite its flaws, the main character (MC) and the male lead (ML) didn't encounter significant setbacks; they consistently moved forward without major setbacks. The portrayal of conflicts, particularly the face-slapping scenes, was clear and impactful.

While I did find some instances where the MC and her mother-in-law seemed harsh towards the elderly, their actions were rooted in the deep resentment and pain from their family history. Considering this context, I can understand their behavior to a certain extent.

In my personal view, the story was entertaining overall.

At first, I genuinely enjoyed the book, but as time passed, my enjoyment waned (I would have rated it three stars, but the excessive five-star reviews pushed it higher). The writing was light-hearted, and I was curious about how the protagonist, Lin Xiaoyue, would support the male lead, Yan Yang, without anticipating the ending.

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What bothered me was Lin Xiaoyue's character, despite being from modern times. She believed that self-defense justified any action, which wasn't realistic for a protagonist. Initially, I liked her, but her support for Yan Yang's harmful behavior crossed a line.

Another issue was her reaction to a situation where Yan Yang's cousin attempted to seduce her. Instead of standing up firmly, she chose to go along with it, which seemed utterly inappropriate and potentially dangerous. It was disappointing to see her resort to such measures.

The climax that triggered me was how the author handled Yan Yang's dissociative identity disorder (DID) with a lighthearted approach. Although Lin Xiaoyue isn't a professional, she could have sought help or至少 tried to learn more about managing it. But she didn't bother, even after encountering one of the personalities.

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The way Lin Xiaoyue treated the different personalities, especially the first one, which barely featured, was selfish and insensitive. She suppressed the others, focusing solely on the third. Her disregard for their feelings and desires, even when they expressed affection for her, was concerning.

While the interactions between the personalities were initially engaging, the book lost its appeal for me. If you're open-minded, you might enjoy it, but I wouldn't recommend it due to certain aspects. The language is relatively straightforward for translation, but the lack of depth in handling sensitive topics like DID is disappointing.

The author's excuse of not being knowledgeable about DID doesn't justify their portrayal, considering the abundance of information available online. In today's world, it's not an excuse to overlook accuracy.

The initial part of the story was engaging and intriguing. A cosmologist seeking admission to a theoretical physics program unexpectedly found herself transported and transformed into a peasant woman, destined to marry a man with an infantile mind, who actually possesses three distinct personalities. The narrative revolves around the protagonist's gradual resilience as she faces emotional turmoil.

Despite the revelation that the childlike persona isn't the only one, the existence of a third, uncontrollable personality posed a significant challenge. The protagonist developed strong feelings for this secondary character, contrasting with her affection for the main personality, who struggled socially and carried the weight of past trauma.

As a reader, I empathized with the protagonist's internal struggle, feeling conflicted about her biases and the impact on another person's psyche. The dynamic between the personalities was uneven, with her preference leaning towards the assertive, financially successful one, who didn't share her academic interests.

The prospect of merging the third personality back into the main one seemed unappealing, and my interest waned as the protagonist's lack of agency and direction became more pronounced. While I understood her desire for relaxation after a rigorous past life, her immaturity in comparison to her age and accomplishments grated.

Ultimately, I decided to discontinue reading due to these complexities and the主角's stagnant character development.

Alright, let's delve into this topic. There are differing opinions in the comments, right? I'd like to share my perspective. First and foremost, I genuinely enjoyed it. While the concept of three personalities might not align with medical reality, one can overlook that for the sake of storytelling, as it's about suspending disbelief.

During the protagonist's journey, her intense affection for the third character caused some stress for me. Initially, I was concerned about her fixation. However, as the plot unfolded, I came to understand her situation better. She genuinely loves all three, but constantly asserts that if forced to choose, she'd pick the third. It's clear that the second one holds a more significant place in her heart. This dynamic could understandably frustrate readers.

What struck me was the complexity of her emotions. Her love for the first, a child, was pure and innocent - a poignant departure when he left abruptly. For the second, the primary personality, she experienced romantic love, caring for him deeply. But he lacked trustworthiness as a partner. The third, on the other hand, brought both love and passion – he ignited a spark within her, making her feel alive, protected, and desired. This is why she consistently chose him, knowing that the second's introverted nature and low self-esteem might dim her passion.

She acknowledged the unfairness to the second, but love often takes us on unexpected paths. It's true that her actions temporarily hindered his growth, but ultimately, one of them remained by her side.

In the end, I appreciated how the story concluded. It evoked a rollercoaster of emotions – anger, sadness, happiness, and relief. So, I wholeheartedly recommend it. Give it a read; you might find it resonates with you.

"I would rate this novel a solid 5 stars. It's a breath of fresh air to come across a time-travel narrative from the 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s, where the protagonist's main focus isn't on climbing to the top or seeking revenge against enemies. Instead, the MC chooses to lead a laid-back and carefree existence, which makes for a pleasant reading experience, providing a welcome change from typical plotlines."