Thirty year old Liang Xinhe broke up with her lover of seven years because the other cheated on her. Thirty-six year old Ning Xi finally broke up with her partner who had broken up and gotten back together with her several times. When they first met, they

“Ponds are pools of stagnant water. Does the fish want to live in this one?”“Of course.”(You Yu X Chi Tang)(The fish the pond)*– She is her mountain, and she is her sea –*Author’s nomenclature using the Chinese characters’ pronunciation: You Yu （