Which mcs harem or reverse harem would you join?

I would probably want to be a female member of any dumb beta harem main character's harem and then get a reverse harem of my own! 

[If everything else fail, there is always the last option]
"I choose death" 

 

Probably one of those MCs with thousands of spouses, then I can do my own thing an they probably would long forget I existed in a few months 

I tried to think a female protag's male harem to fit in, but it turns out I don't read enough hen... novels to know of any suitable options.

Well, regardless, even if I went into one, I'd still be a persona non grata, so I'd anyway be safe.

In fact, isn't joining a guy's harem of ladies as a man like inviting a wolf into a hen house when the MC is away?

UPDATE:
Oh wait, joining a yuri harem as the only male... 

I wish to be reincarnated as female and join a female harem where we are all female. Yuri harem only. 

I think it's a very good idea ! 

rather which one to join I think I'm more clear which one to not join
numba one absolutely nay nay no go, Imperial Harem