Reign of the Uncontrollable Wife

After reading the discription I get that this is a harem novel and there will be lemons but does that mean the mc forgives a girl even if they are annoying or lets them go even though they tried to make trouble for him? Harem novels tend to be like that. One way or another they end up forgiving the womens but keep killing the men. It's a big let down for me. One of the reasons I hate most harem novels. Can someone enlighten me?

Nice contemporary story with characters who are believable, rather good english.